My 4-year-old daughter throws up like a champ.
Ever since she was only 18 months old, she’s been able to know it’s coming and get herself to a bucket in time.
Impressive, and quite handy…but the fact that she seems to also have an on/off vomit button whenever she has stomach problems – one that someone flips like a one-year-old who just discovered how to use a lightswitch – not so fun.
The normal rules of throwing up do not apply to her.
For example: When vomiting occurs, one is supposed to wait two hours before taking anything by mouth.
With Leah, I’ve learned that if she wants water, I give her a (tiny) drink and set the timer for 5 or 10 minutes, then another sip. If she’s hungry, we feed that belly a small amount of food then set the timer for more. It seems that an empty belly, rather than full, makes her throw up again.
For example: Once a child has been well 24 hours, most schools allow them back.
I won’t send Leah! That first throw-up experience when she was two went like this:
- Friday morning: threw up every 10 minutes for 4 hours.
- More or less better by dinnertime.
- Saturday: woke up feeling great, threw up at 2:00.
- Felt perfectly fine all day Saturday and Sunday.
- Monday: We went to Bible study and nursery.
- Around 2:00 – and she knew it was coming! – she threw up again. Yes, that’s 48 hours well and then it was back. There’s the revolving door!
- She felt great the rest of the day and then threw up at midnight.
- Tuesday: Felt great, had an appetite, played normally all day. Threw up at midnight.
- I started wondering if we’d ever be able to send her anywhere again. How would we know when she was well?
- Wednesday: Normal day, great appetite…I was tired of changing sheets by this point and announced, “I’m going to go sit in her room at quarter to midnight so I can get it in the bucket.”
- 20 minutes to midnight: she threw up on her sheets.
I wish I could say I was exaggerating some of this for comedy’s sake, but I haven’t embellished a word. There’s a reason I’m so adept at these sick kid clean-up tips.
Every time she gets a throw-up bug, it plays the come-and-go game, and we’re always thankful she has that hit-the-bucket skill!. We feel like we never really know when she’s finally well (and we can take the sheets off the couch and stop making her carry a bucket around).
Since I know that for Leah, an empty belly is an unhappy belly, I do allow her food when she’s hungry – I trust her body. The tricky part is what to allow her to eat and drink.
This post is sponsored by Trilight Health.
What to Feed Someone with Stomach Pain or Upset Tummy
1. Any tummy troubles (diarrhea, nausea) should be served the BRATY diet:
B – bananas
R – rice (white)
A – applesauce
T – toast (white)
Y – yogurt
2. Dairy ought to be avoided.
A saltine cracker is the classic food to nibble on as a stomach pain remedy, but I just can’t fathom giving my girl white flour, gluten, and trans fats when she’s ill – all things we try to avoid when she’s well!
In fact, most of the BRATY diet consists of things I don’t usually stock in my house, for one reason or another:
- bananas – we do eat bananas, and that’s something I’ll give a sick child, in small doses. The amylase in bananas is an enzyme that assists in digestion, so although bananas are high in natural sugars, they still seem like a gentle choice for an upset tummy.
- white rice – when we eat rice, it’s (soaked) brown rice. In the BRATY diet, the refined grain is supposed to firm up your stool – any wonder why most of America is probably constipated all the time on their diet of white bread and refined flours?
- applesauce – I like applesauce and even can it in the fall, or we have raw applesauce, but I include the skins of the apples. I believe the idea in the BRATY diet is that the applesauce has no skins, no fiber to keep the system moving properly. Plus, it’s supposed to be cooked, so my raw applesauce fruit rolls wouldn’t fit the bill.
- toast – as a family who eats “low gluten” all the time, bread isn’t something we have on hand anymore. When we did, it was a hearty homemade soaked whole wheat bread or a dense honey whole wheat sourdough bread. Neither would accomplish the “firming up” that the white bread (or saltines) of the BRATY diet is supposed to achieve.
- yogurt – now this one, we can do. Our family of 4-and-a-half eaters goes through about a gallon and a bit of homemade yogurt every week. It’s definitely a staple in our days. It’s interesting to me, however, that dairy yogurt sort of flies in the face of the other popular “what to feed a sick kid” advice, which is to avoid dairy.
What REAL Food Helps an Upset Tummy?
When someone in the Kimball house is laid out sick on the couch, the first thing I want to give them is nourishing bone broth, no matter what they have.
It’s the perfect stomach pain remedy: a liquid, easy to get down, gentle tasting, chock full of easily assimilated minerals, contains gelatin, which is a digestive aid, and even has immunity-boosting properties if you leave the fat in.
It’s vitally important to note that all this goodness only applies to properly prepared homemade chicken stock, the kind with the bones and preferably a vinegar soak at the beginning of the process to draw the minerals and calcium out.
The commercially prepared canned chicken noodle soup that I used to reach for when a family member fell ill five years ago – I cringe at the memory – doesn’t hold a candle to the real thing.
Part of me want to stop writing right here and rename the post “Bone Broth Heals Everything.” It’s absolutely the perfect choice, and all of the health benefits of homemade chicken stock align with what someone with an upset tummy (or cold or flu) needs.
But I like to offer many options, too – what if you don’t have bone broth on hand? What if it’s all frozen and will take an hour to thaw in a pot of warm water, and you need something now?
(That’s why I freeze homemade chicken broth in ice cube trays, by the way – throw one in a pot with some salt and thyme, maybe ginger, garlic, or red pepper to fight infection, and it’s thawed and ready to eat in less than 5 minutes.)
Natural Stomach Pain Remedies
When your tummy is feeling upset, sometimes you just don’t want to eat at all. There are a few natural remedies for stomach problems that our family has tried and others corroborate, including:
- Tummy Plus from Trilight Health :: designed to support digestive function during times of colic, stomach ache, indigestion, heartburn or intestinal gas, Tummy Plus includes peppermint, catnip, fennel, marshmallow, Oregon grape root and ginger. It tastes good and is nice to have around for those times when kids say, “Mom, my tummy hurts!”
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- LiquaLax for constipation
- Anti-Dia Tribe for diarrhea
- Activated charcoal (mine is in my Naturokit) for diarrhea or nausea/vomiting
- Redmond Clay for diarrhea or nausea/vomiting or indigestion
- Comprehensive probiotic supplement to support general digestive health on a daily basis and especially in times of illness
- Blue Green Minerals or a daily liquid mineral multivitamin/prenatal vitamin :: to replace and maintain minerals daily
- We’ve personally tried the Tummy Plus, clay, charcoal, and good probiotics (many brands) but not the others listed.
Is There a Real Food Alternative to the BRATY Diet?
When I asked for ideas for natural remedies for stomach pain and digestive issues, a few readers mentioned the BRAT diet, and one said:
“Brat diet. Man I hate the brat diet, but it works.”
Plenty of readers also said they would use some or all of the “BRAT” diet. But why should we give our sick kids foods we wouldn’t normally eat?
I propose a new definition to the BRATY diet, a real foods definition that will nourish our systems rather than break them down when we have stomach problems, colds, flus, or are otherwise down and out.
These foods and natural remedies are easy on the stomach, have healing properties, and best of all, I actually have them in my kitchen most of the time:
B – bone broth (& bentonite clay)
R – ripe bananas
A – activated charcoal
T – tea: peppermint, ginger, chamomile
Y – yogurt (& other gentle probiotics foods)
One last thing I do when anyone is sick with anything is cut sugar, especially any refined white sugar that might sneak in. Sugar feeds the bad guys, and I want to starve them.
My chicken stock “cubes” are just about out, as a matter of fact, so I’m making a mental note to make sure I freeze more the next time I make stock. Now is the time of year I don’t want to be caught without!
Natural Remedies to Aid an Upset Stomach
I’m grateful to all my readers for such amazing ideas last week I queried on Facebook and Twitter about what real food remedies folks give their kids for tummy troubles. Here is the list that helped me refine my idea of the new BRATY diet:
- broth (lots!)
- soup with ginger
- fermented foods
- brown rice
- crackers (hopefully homemade crackers)
- peppermint and ginger tea, chamomile tea
- water kefir
- activated charcoal
- no dairy
- coconut water (replaces electrolytes and fluids)
- Chicken stock, ginger tea, and a drink made with raw honey, sea salt, and lemon (sounds weird, I know) to replace fluids and trace minerals. Other than that I give them what they want (real foods, of course) because I think our bodies know what they want when they’re sick. I got e. coli once from bad water and all I wanted was real, raw, fermented sauerkraut straight from the jar. I credit it with kicking the infection in just under two days, and having it to a much lesser intent than the others who got it.
- chicken broth made with extra garlic and ginger and a pinch of red pepper flakes; yogurt, broth, creamy rice, zoku quick pops made with diluted juice, egg drop soup, chicken soup, toast from homemade bread
- Yogurt. So much yogurt. Easily digested veggies like squash.
- Cooked carrots can cause constipation, so I give those to my kids for loose stools (sorry to be direct!) along with rice, cooked rice water with honey & salt, and bananas. For constipation the key for us is eating the 3F’s: fat, fluids, and fiber. Raw fruits and veggies (eating several tomatoes whole in one sitting, for example, or cucumbers…whatever fruit or veggie you usually don’t let your kids eat “too much” of) and whole grain bread dipped in olive oil are helpful. Caffeine is a diuretic, so some diluted black tea or iced tea may help draw water into the bowels to make using the loo easier.
- real ginger ale
- watered down ACV (apple cider vinegar)
- crystalized ginger to settle tummy
What’s your go-to natural remedy for stomach problems and upset tummies? Do you think the new BRATY diet is a winner?
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