Monday Mission: How Many Baby Steps Have You Taken?

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Your mission, if you choose to accept, is to be retrospective and introspective. How many changes have you made since you started your journey to real food?

What percentage of your diet did those changes impact? What future goals do you have?
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We’ll spend some time this November considering, commiserating, and perhaps passing on some basic baby steps to friends who need them.

December really is a busy month and not the best time to be making major changes –the chances for failure on account of lack of time and energy are just too great, so Monday Missions will be taking a little break until January, when we’ll come back with our annual “Back to Basics” beginning of the new year theme.

I’m so excited to announce that Tiffany of Don’t Waste the Crumbs has been using my Top Ten Baby Steps” post to guide some of her kitchen/household transformations, and she’s going to share her story with us throughout the month of January.

Looking back at that post, aptly titled “Overwhelmed? Start Here,” I realized that, as the list approaches its third birthday, it’s time for some upgrades. Nearly all of the ten steps are still among those I consider most important, even though at the time I was in the throes of making baby steps, and now I’m just looking back in retrospect and working on more advanced leaps and bounds.

It’s reassuring that I mostly knew what I was doing way back when – or just inflated pride that of course I would agree with myself! Winking smile

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An old photo from when I was exploring the difference between store shredded and home grated cheese…

Today’s mission is designed to inspire you to take a step back, hopefully pat yourself on the back for the progress you’ve made, allow you to see what baby steps you may have missed that will be quick and easy to tackle this month, and help you plan out the next set of changes you want to make, setting goals for January.

In January, we’ll detail “Back to Basics” more clearly (with Tiffany’s help) and give you time and inspiration to really make the changes you want to accomplish, one baby step at a time. (Next week I’m adding another set of 5-10 “moderate” and “advanced” steps for those of you who never had an artificial sweetener in your house. You can share this post with friends who look at your kitchen and are overwhelmed, not knowing where to start but wishing they could take steps to better nutrition themselves.)

Readers often email me (it just happened again this weekend) and ask, “Where do I start? Our diet is so full of processed foods, and it seems like there’s too many changes to make all at once, and we have a really tight food budget, and I’m just OVERWHELMED! Help!”

I direct them to this post, which I’ll leave in the old format until next week and then update with these new edits – in case any of you want to compare and kibitz (that means share your opinion – is my mom the only one who uses that term?).

The New Kitchen Stewardship Top Ten

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If you’re just starting your journey to real food, you really can’t do it all at once. Impossible.

In school, we teach kids to recognize their letters, learn the names and sounds of the letters, then blend them together to make words. We never ask a preschooler to learn to read and write without these basic building blocks.

Consider this list your chance to have some real food flash cards, some floor puzzles to help you get the alphabet in order, and some practice connecting sounds together to make words.

Take it one step at a time.

Format: Each baby step will be listed with two bullet points, the first sharing WHY you want to make the change, and the second giving direction on HOW to make it happen.

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  1. Cut out: artificial sweeteners and trans fat.
    • These things are barely related to food. They’re not real food. Don’t eat them.
    • To implement this, become a label reader. You’ll learn a lot in the process, buy less processed food, and begin to prepare yourself for more advanced steps.
  2. Use healthy fats.

    • Americans have a vast imbalance of omega 3s and omega 6s, which causes inflammation and disease. You also need some traditional fats, those we’ve been eating for thousands of years, to replace any trans fats you cut out of your cupboards.
    • 1. Switch to full fat dairy – this change doesn’t need any new money or routines, you just pick up a different color container next time you shop.
      2. Use butter instead of margarine.
      3. Try coconut oil. It’s awesome and versatile!
      4. Work on cutting down on industrial oils to reduce your omega 6s (the inflammatory ones). These include corn, soybean, canola, safflower, sunflower, and “vegetable” oil.
      5. Try including olive oil as a replacement for the above in cold applications. If you eat salad, you’ll be hard pressed to find salad dressings without corn or soybean oils, so you may need to make homemade dressings, unless you want to spend $5/bottle. (Olive oil is mostly omega 9s.)No fair, right? That was totally NOT one change. To take baby steps, do them in order, one at a time. Fats are important!
  3. Plan ahead:  meal planning is a must!
    • You will save money by avoiding impulse buys and emergency pizza nights, and you can balance your nutrition between different meats.  Planning makes it possible to do things like soak dry beans and use ingredients like chicken stock or fresh spinach twice in a week to streamline your cooking and avoid waste.
    • Just do it. Use a piece of paper, an online meal planner like Plan to Eat (which will also make grocery lists for you, store recipes, and nearly cook your supper for you…not really that last one), an Excel document, a chalkboard…whatever works for you and gets you planning ahead, do it. More on menu planning.
  4. Make homemade yogurt.
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    • At least begin to consume plain yogurt in an effort to (a) include probiotics in your life and (b) reduce your dependence on sweeteners. When you have a lot of it around, you eat it more often, too.
    • My homemade  yogurt method makes it easy to make a quart, two quarts, or a whole gallon at a time.
  5. Make traditional bone broth.
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    • Chicken stock’s health benefits are immense: it is an amazing immunity booster, imparts minerals to your body, AND makes use of something many people throw away (or avoid buying in the first place) – chicken bones. I promise you will love the money saved tackling this step.
    • Follow the directions for nourishing chicken stock. You might even try never-ending chicken stock, and then try to find good stock recipes so you can use your stock at least once a week.  (But if that’s overwhelming, just make it once and see what happens.  You’ll love it!)
  6. Use dry beans in your meals.
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    • Beans (legumes) pack in the fiber, iron, and protein, all for much less than animal sources of protein. I’m not saying that meat is bad for you – on the contrary, I’d like to see you save money making yogurt, stock, and using dry beans instead of canned, and then spend it on higher quality, well-raised meat.
    • Cooking large batches and freezing adds the convenience of a can (almost) back into the process, and you can find tons of recipes in The Everything Beans Book. I’ll also be sharing bean-y ideas at Once a Month Mom’s Get Real series this month.
  7. Make non-toxic homemade cleaners.

    • Not only are most commercial cleaners full of toxins that can harm your family, but they’re far more expensive than simple, homemade cleaners using only a few ingredients.You can put perfectly nourishing food IN your bodies, but if your indoor air quality is making your family sick, it won’t matter.  Don’t use bleach.  Avoid triclosan.
    • Start with baking soda, hydrogen peroxide and vinegar. You can find lots of ideas for how to use these simple homemade cleaners, plus other products, mostly inexpensive, for the few places the triple threat doesn’t cut it.
  8. Learn to eat nutrient-dense foods.
    • Ask not what you can take out of your food, but what your food can put into you. This takes mental energy but not much physical time or money.
    • Read two paradigms of healthy eating:  rather than to work hard at doing a zillion new things, figure out what regular old foods you can focus on to be as healthy as you can (like onions and garlic for immunities, EVOO and avocado for healthy fats, for one example).
  9. Do something about grains.
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    • Grains are such a hotly debated topic – some say eat only whole grains; some say those are no good unless soaked, sprouted, or soured; some say soaking is bunk; some say skip the grains altogether.For baby steps, you can’t get too deeply into that topic yet. However –
    • You should definitely lose the white flour bread and crackers. If you don’t know what to replace them with, don’t. Just cut. (How to know if your bread has white or whole grains.)
    • If you feel like trying soaking grains, start with soaked oatmeal. It’s super easy, pinkie swear. A perfect baby step. Read more about it when you’re ready.
    • Try making homemade bread, or start by keeping an eye out for a used breadmaker.
    • If whole wheat bread seems to be heavy or uncomfortable for you to eat, I encourage you to try going grain-free for a couple days. Just eat meats and veggies and see how you feel. Beyond the trial period, the least expensive way to go grain-free is to buy one bag of coconut flour and find some simple pancakes, muffins, etc. using it, but mostly just eat lots of veggies, legumes, potatoes, fruits and meats. (More here.)I know, another cheater with multiple steps…I’m sorry!
  10. Reduce your dependence on sweeteners.
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    • No matter what people say about the health benefits of certain natural sweeteners, the fact is that they all have carbs and contribute less to your overall health than they may harm.
    • The simple step here is to avoid worrying about all those “natural” sweeteners, forgo deciding if paying quadruple for a bag of sugar is worth it – just decrease the amount of sweetener you consume, period.First, cut out all high fructose corn syrup. Whether you believe that HFCS is far worse than white sugar or trust the ‘corn sugar’ commercials, either way, high fructose corn syrup has no redeeming value and adds empty calories and carbs to your diet. It is not healthy in any amount, and it’s a marker of a highly processed food. Cut it out for a week and see if you miss the foods that contain it (LOTS of them).

      Second, you can also work hard to reduce your white sugar consumption. Try having fruit for dessert in an effort to tame your sweet tooth.

In order to accomplish these baby steps, the amount of boxed and bottled food you buy will drastically diminish. If sticking to a budget is part of your balancing act, you’ll find yourself making a lot from scratch – another opportunity to be overwhelmed as far as where to start.

I would recommend taking note of what processed food (box or bottle) you use most often during the course of one week. That’s where you want to learn the “from-scratch” version, because it will affect your family the most frequently.

Also consider the cost savings of making your own over buying a “better” processed version. There are some things, like real sourdough bread, that are nearly impossible to purchase, nutritionally. You have to make them.

Things like butter, cottage cheese, and sour cream don’t have much financial savings when you make your own, so it’s best, in my opinion (unless you own a cow), to find a good source to purchase those items.

Others, like pasta, may just have to remain an exception. That’s something I’ve never made, because I just can’t budget the time to do it, so we simply use pasta less often.

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Three different kinds of coconut flour…the kind of thing I’m messing with now, three years after the shredded cheese thing up above.

Last, but definitely not least, be sure to stay connected in prayer. Do your best and give God the rest.  He’ll take good care of you.

I can’t wait to hear more real-life tales from Tiffany come January, and I hope this list helps many of you prioritize your journey. The steps are kind of meant to be taken in order, as I listed them by importance – but whatever feels most doable to you should really be where you start!

What baby steps were the first you tackled? Which changes were the easiest? The most challenging?

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22 Bites of Conversation So Far

  1. Ashley says

    I loved reading through this post! There’s still so many areas I should improve in, but looking back I’ve come so far. Your blog has played a huge role in that!

    AND an especially big thanks for the reminder to give it to God! He WILL take care of us : )

  2. says

    Homemade yogurt (and embracing saturated fat) was my first step.

    From there, I went to glass containers rather than plastic… then free-range eggs, beef, and chicken… then the quest for truly gelatinous stock… then grain-free… and so it goes :) None of them were particularly difficult. I’d say that finding the beef and chicken were the hardest, just because it meant legwork for me and extra money.

  3. Karen says

    I’m still working on menu planning and cutting back on sweeteners. I am trying to get a new sourdough starter happening, always make yogurt and mayo. We use glass for most storage, get local honey, grow a garden and my father has the fat from two pigs in his freezer for me to render to lard when I have time. DH barters for free range eggs whenever possible, but we haven’t got a reliable source of good meat (the fat was a bonus) and would only be able to legally have raw dairy that we love if we owned the cow. We also try to get our major fruit purchased direct from the orchardist.

    I think I am most pleased about the yogurt which saves us a lot of money, and the mayo which doesn’t save a penny, but is so much better. It’s been an intersting trip, so far.

    • Katie Kimball @ Kitchen Stewardship says

      Good for you! Know how you’ll find the time to do the lard? Thaw it. 😉 That’s what I did to myself last weekend to force the project, which doesn’t take that much time, just time at home to pour off some fat and turn it on again.

      :) Katie

      • Karen says

        Yeah, that’s the scary part. I haven’t actually seen it yet, and keep trying to visualize the volume of fat from two pigs. Then I try to visualize where and how to store it. Maybe I’ll have to check through your archives – we just got it a couple weeks ago, so I still have some time to mull it over

        • Katie Kimball @ Kitchen Stewardship says

          Oh, ALL the fat from two pigs!?! Yes, scary. Maybe just thaw a package and see how it goes… 😉 I don’t have a tutorial on my site, but basically, just cut it up as small as you are willing to bother with (smaller renders best but it doesn’t matter since you have 50 million pounds of fat…). Put it in a pot on the stove (some do the slow cooker) and cook slowly. It will melt – pour off the fat and strain out the solids with a fine mesh strainer when it seems to slow down and then put what’s left back on the heat. Continue until you lose patience. 😉 Katie

          • Karen says

            50 million pounds – lol – yeah, that feels like what awaits me. I think I might do smallish batches and pour the rendered fat into a rectangular pan until I have added four pounds to it, let it solidify, then cut into four bricks, wrap it and put it back in the freezer. And I will have a lot of stock to make and can when I take the stewing hens out of the freezer to make room for lard. I see a busy January ahead!

            I guess I don’t need to stock up on much butter for baking now. Or maybe ever.

  4. Christina says

    I just had some friends over today to help them on their journey to healthy eating and we were talking about small steps they could make that would fit into their lives. I’ve made so many small steps that I’m now a totally different person! I would probably feel ill if I ate the way I did 2-3 years ago.
    It’s all about making small changes that fit into your life and that you can continue to make into good habits. Less sugar, less processed foods, more vegetables, and more thoughtful eating are huge for me.

  5. says

    Hi! I just had to write and tell you how happy you’ve made me! I’ve made several things now from your snacks ebook that I just read and my family loved them! Ive been on my “real food journey” for a while now but have been pretty frustrated at times especially in the snack department, cuz really that’s all kids want to eat! Ha! And i feel so much more confident and excited to move forward on my journey now that I’ve found kitchen stewardship! Thanks a million!

    • Katie Kimball @ Kitchen Stewardship says

      I love hearing about KS success stories! I don’t know how we would survive without some of our favorite recipes from HSTG, too. :) Katie

  6. says

    Kibitz is a Yiddish word, so it’s more often used by people of that ancestry, which probably aren’t so common in Michigan. :-)

    For people who feel they can’t take on homemade yogurt, a good baby step is to eat more yogurt and make sure it’s plain, full fat, active culture yogurt, ideally organic. Yogurt compared to fluid milk is a little higher in protein and calcium and is easier to digest, as well as adding probiotics to your system. Here are lots of ways to reuse empty quart yogurt buckets!

  7. Heather says

    I’ve made several switches over the past year! :0) I have 2 questions, though…
    If I want to subsitute “Karo” or corn syrup in a recipe, what should I do (I was going through my mom’s old recipes and they ALL seemed to have that in it)???
    Also, I’ve made several things recently with sourdough starter, and if the item is in excess of what we eat right then, and it is refridgerated, parts or all of the item (bread, pancakes, etc) turn a weird greenish-greyish-brown within a day. why is this??? thanks for ALL your info…I love to read your blog.

    • Katie Kimball @ Kitchen Stewardship says

      Good for you!

      1. Karo/corn syrup – it’s been a while since I tried subbing for exactly this, BUT in my experience, I’ve never had a complete failure subbing one sweetener for another. I would just use equal amount (or a smidge less) honey and see what happens!
      2. The sourdough question baffles me. It’s not moldly in the fridge? And it doesn’t turn colors if you leave them out of the fridge? I always stored my bread on the counter – sourdough generally will last even longer than regular bread. I wish I had a better guess, unless air is getting into your packaging? If it still smells and tastes good, I wouldn’t worry too much.

      :) Katie

      • Heather K says

        The color change is overnight in the fridge… It’s weird. I’ve tried w/pancakes too… just griddled=beautiful. Next day refrigerated =weird color. In a zip lock bag, too. Oh, and Freezer =beautiful. I just thought it was a common thing because it has happened every time with every sourdough recipe I’ve made recently. Tastes fine and I’m positive it’s not mold because it is freshly made the day before. Maybe it IS oxygen??? Thanks for your help!

  8. HeatherDB says

    Thanks so much for posting this. I am trying to change things slowly to help me with my arthritis and of course, improve the health of my family overall. I really appreciate this information. Is there an easy way to print this off? Thanks to living on a dairy farm, we’ve already switched to raw milk! I’ll be making my first batch of yogurt soon as well!

    • Katie Kimball @ Kitchen Stewardship says

      There is a “print friendly” button on the post, near the bottom, that makes it easier to print. Thanks! :) Katie

  9. Jen says

    I have already done a variety of these steps on my own. Had no idea how close I was to real. I LOVE making my own chicken & turkey stock and do it quite regularly. We use it for flavoring all sorts of foods, veggies, couscous, potatoes, rices, and for makeing homemade soups. I never realized how easy real foods really are and finding out I’ve been taking a lot of the steps on my own through common sense is just inspiring! Thank you for all these steps, links, and your blog! God Bless!

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